Affair! Bam! Is it over now?

Your partner had an affair! Wow! You didn’t expect this from him/her! Feelings such as horror, disappointment, anger, bewilderment, shock, irritation… are completely normal. You can now do whatever makes you feel good: cry, let your anger out, withdraw. Look after yourself first.

Once the initial shock has subsided, the big WHY usually emerges. In this, or in the answers to this WHY, there are often already solutions for the couple.

Have you perhaps lost sight of each other for some time? Have you stopped talking about emotional issues and only talked about children, the household and your job? Have you lost touch with sex?

When was the last time you really looked at yourself consciously, gave yourself attention and recognition?

Whether and how things continue depends on the individual dynamics of each couple, their value system and the love that still exists.

I support you empathically and tailor-made in this process: to a good separation or to a really new relationship that grows up, whose pillars are honesty and eye level.

I look forward to seeing you!