“Women must learn again to draw a man’s attention to what he already knows.” (Coco Chanel)
Stay attractive to your man, surprise him with a nice outfit, with something he hasn’t seen before, even if you’re only at home. I go one step further, because I think men should take just as much responsibility for their relationship as we women do and surprise us with a nice outfit, pick us up in a manner befitting our status, hold the door open (without the car OR the woman being “new”;-)), smell good. You don’t have to be covered in perfume from head to toe, but a subtle, spicy scent can have a very stimulating effect on a woman.
So, become the exciting woman and the exciting man you were in the dating phase.
Then you won’t have to look around for other women and men at work or anywhere else 😉