Hello dear relationship followers,
“Successful partnership – balance between closeness and distance” (Helmut Glaßl)
Every partnership is about the healthy exploration of closeness and distance. In a good partnership context, you will find a balance. What many couples don’t realize during arguments when it comes to topics such as household chores, raising children, planning leisure activities, sex, etc. is that this is only “superficially” the issue; in reality, it’s about the degree of closeness and distance, which is very individual for each partner. For anxious attachment types in particular, a lack of closeness often leads to dissonance.
In people with an “insecure” attachment style, there is an imbalance per se; the“anxious-avoidant” couple often form a bond. However, this often difficult constellation is not hopeless, but requires willingness and awareness from both partners. I am happy to support you in developing a healthy balance between closeness and distance and thus a more balanced and happier partnership.
Yours, Marijana Lorenz
Relationship coach from Mannheim
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