Hello everyone,
As an expert in attachment anxiety/avoidance, I would like to show you today what active and passive attachment avoiders have in common.
What are active and passive attachment avoiders? The active attachment avoider actively and visibly escapes from the relationship by repeatedly having to create distancein order to get along.
It’s not so easy with the passive avoider, at first glance you think he’ll do anything just to get into a relationship, but on closer inspection he unconsciously sabotages his relationship or attracts an active landlord into his life from the outset, who won’t get too close to him either.
BOTH have an unstable sense of self-worth and BOTH are afraid of real closeness. This unfortunately very common couple constellation can only be broken through a great deal of awareness and TOGETHER work on the attachment patterns.
As a single person, however, you have the chance to align yourself with securely committed partners, because only with them is there a prospect of a stable and happy partnership.
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